@Taskerland I think there's a similar responsibility on the part of players: not to take the piss.
I've been very spoiled by my first and only DM being fantastic, and really going out of his way for us, both in terms of prep, and in accommodating our preferences, quirks, and derailing of things.
But in return, I try to reign myself in when I'm getting too pedantic, or selfish, or doing stuff that is clearly creating lots of work/problems or noclipping to an unreasonable extent
